X: I really think love isn't based on effort. Don't you think so?
Y: Then what is it based on?
X: You want cold water. I fan the cup a million times, then someone else walks by the ice.
Y: So, what?
X: You want something from someone. Maybe you have expectations. I work with blood sweat and tears to reach your expectations. And then suddenly someone else just came by and has that thing you've been looking for. So, you go with them instead.